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Does Size Really Matter? And Other Things Guys Stress About (Lesson Plan)

Lesson Plan - Does Size Really Matter? And Other Things Guys Stress About

The lesson plan for Does Penis Size Really Matter? And Other Things Guys Stress About has been designed to help parents and carers gently guide learners through the often tricky subject of body image and common worries boys have about growing up. It helps children and teens understand why these worries happen, what is normal during puberty, and how confidence is about much more than appearance.

The plan includes clear learning objectives, open-ended discussion questions, fun creative tasks, and deeper thinking challenges to encourage self-confidence and healthy thinking. Parents will find a variety of activities that can be easily adapted depending on the age and needs of their learner, whether working one-to-one or in small family groups.

This resource has been made especially for Elective Home Education families and offers flexibility to suit your unique home-learning style. Whether used as a one-off session or as part of a broader health and wellbeing project, this lesson will help you support your learner through this important and sensitive topic.


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Lesson Plan
Does Size Really Matter? And Other Things Guys Stress About
OverviewThis lesson helps learners explore common worries boys have about their bodies during puberty, including size, height, muscles, and skin. It encourages open discussion, understanding, and self-confidence. Suitable for ages 8 to 16.
Learning Objectives - Understand why boys worry about body changes
- Learn the facts about size, puberty, and appearance
- Build confidence and self-acceptance
- Identify ways to manage stress and negative thoughts
Estimated Time60–90 minutes
Starter Activity Discuss together:
  • What are some things boys your age often worry about?
  • Why do you think people compare themselves to others?
  • What does the word "confidence" mean to you?
Read and Learn Read the article Does Size Really Matter? And Other Things Guys Stress About together. Take turns reading aloud if possible. After reading, discuss:

  • What are some myths about size?
  • Why is comparing yourself to others often unhelpful?
  • What did you learn about how puberty happens at different times for everyone?
  • What did you find surprising or reassuring?
Activities Comprehension Questions:

  1. What is the average erect penis size according to scientists?
  2. What are some other worries boys have during puberty?
  3. What did studies show about what people actually value in others?
  4. Why is puberty different for everyone?
  5. Who can you talk to if you are feeling worried?

Creative Task:

Design a poster, leaflet, or digital graphic with helpful and positive messages for boys your age about body changes. Include at least three facts from the article and three positive statements like "You are more than your appearance" or "Confidence comes from within."

Optional Writing Task:

Write a short personal reflection (or journal entry) about how learning the facts changed the way you think about body worries.
Deeper Thinking Big Questions:
  • Why do you think so many people feel pressured to look a certain way?
  • How could social media, films, and advertising affect how people feel about themselves?
  • What could you do if you saw someone else struggling with body worries?
Creative Projects - Create a simple comic strip showing a character overcoming body worries and finding confidence.
- Make a list of kind things you could say to a friend who is feeling insecure.
- Create a 'Confidence Toolkit' – a poster with tips for staying confident when you feel worried about your body.
Review & Reflect Ask the learner:

  • What new things did you learn today?
  • Do you feel differently about any of the worries you used to have?
  • What would you tell someone younger who was feeling worried about their body?
Extensions & Homework - Research and write about how puberty works for both boys and girls
- Create a short presentation on how social media can affect body image
- Make a “kindness jar” — fill it with compliments and positive things you like about yourself
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